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Stop and Take a Breather

February 24, 2020

Rodebjer set
Vintage belt
Dear Frances boots

When I’m overwhelmed because I feel pulled in too many directions, I stop and take a breather. I move and jump around and blend with the sky and let that feeling be the only thing inside my head. And if I do it enough times, I find that I land back down seeing clearer where I want to go. This puzzle that’s life takes time putting itself together. Give it all the time in the world.

The majority of my influencer career (and I know many of you guys can relate) has been about creating that perfect shot. There have been many a day of over-analyzation, self-critique, and frustrations that came with picking apart every aspect of a photo, and of myself, which at its root went against the point of everything I do and truly wanted to share. The struggles behind what seems like the perfect, most effortless photos are the parts that never seem to be shared. And to us in front of the camera, it never seemed like enough photos could be taken to get that perfect shot, and we drive ourselves crazy over this. My mindset about this has changed drastically over the last two years, and I really had to put in a lot of work and self affirmations to get to this point of becoming more confident in myself and my work, less self critical, and less expectant of nailing projects on the head perfectly each and every time. Shifting my expectations was #1, and I became happier with what I was creating. The spur-of-the-moment, less staged me is much more creative than the overly analytical, perfectionist me. And so I allowed myself to let go and embrace this creative part of me much more. And I am still working to get better at this everyday. Like the spontaneity of an instant photograph to the unexpectedness of getting back prints from my disposable camera, taking this mindset to the content creation process has helped me feel much more sane and creatively free. After 10 years of running my blog and 8 years of posting on Instagram, this is by far the most important sort of personal growth I have been able to experience and I’m thankful for it. I just wanted to let you guys know, in case you guys are experiencing the same sort of frustrations and creative ruts. They are parts of life, so don’t let them them pick yourself a part. Let’s be there for each other during them instead. Keep creating loves 🙂

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A Shift Towards Sustainability

February 1, 2020

Vintage blazer
Swedish Stockings for Ganni tights
Malone Souliers shoes

I now have a new tag on my blog, and it’s called “sustainability.” It’s a topic that we all should never stop talking about as the state of the our earth depends on it. As a matter of fact, my blog was founded on the foundation of a sustainably built wardrobe. The thing is, at the time, I wasn’t really thinking about sustainability. I shopped second hand and vintage because I had to be thrifty, and I enjoyed the hunt of finding pieces that I felt that no one else was going to have. I built my entire sense of style off of my mom’s hand-me-downs, the $3 rack at my college vintage shop, and the entire slew of Los Angeles Goodwills and Salvation Armys. My parents did a lot of estate sale shopping, especially for home decor, and this gave me the chance to dive into the closets of Beverly Hill’s homes. I came to recognize decades from pattern, prints, color schemes and buttoning. I built stories in my heads of the those that I imagined wearing the clothing that I paid only dollars for. I felt a rush of adrenaline as I filled my closet with color upon color. Today, I still have these same feelings when it comes to second hand and vintage shopping, only I am now far more conscious of the correlation between the fashion industry and our earth’s longevity. As fires rage across our planet, animals die from trash that gets unloaded into the ocean, and as large brand’s take advantage of the cheap labor in poorer countries resulting in inhumane work conditions, just a few of the many horrendous happenings that our earth has had to face, stepping into a department store full of racks upon rack of brand new clothing at insane prices but without the quality of decades ago makes me almost sick. It’s a hard thing for someone like me who makes a living of wearing and promoting clothing, who loves the creativity that fashion instills in her, but who also cannot stand the idea of wastefulness and its effects on the planet.

It’s hard for me to say a hard no to buying anything brand new or working with fast fashion brands here and there because I still want to promote a fashion sense that is accessible to those who cannot invest in higher quality items. Even high quality vintage can be an expensive luxury today. I’m here to be realistic about my sustainability goals for myself. I cannot promise to be 100% sustainable. As a fashion blogger, I will always continue to work with brands on new product launches makes sense with my personal style, but I want to make a commitment to promoting products that I honestly know will have longevity when it comes to quality and time spent in my closet. On top of that, I want to make a commitment to bringing my wardrobe back towards mostly second hand or vintage pieces. Being conscious of shifting towards this change will make a difference over time, and that is a good start. This shift started early last year, where I naturally found myself buying less new things and became more particular when it came to accepting gifting and sponsorships from brands. My mindset fell into one of “less is more”. Less rush. Less stress. Less impatience. Cleaner eating. More head space to give room for listening to my body. Less clutter in my home space. It was natural that this mindset would apply to my closet. And thinking about sustainability and the impact it can have on the future makes it an even easier decision to make this shift. It helps to care. 

Nobody is perfect, and I am far from it, but I am excited to start this fashion journey towards something that is better. I realize I don’t need to sacrifice my style for sustainability. In fact, I believe my style will thrive because of it. Just like it did the day I did my very first blog post all those years ago featuring an all second hand look that cost under $30. Here’s to caring more, spending less and wasting less. 

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St. Regis World Snow Polo Championship

January 10, 2020

I have partnered with The St. Regis to bring you this travel diary about my stay at The St. Regis Aspen for World Snow Polo Championship.

What a way to spend the week before Christmas! This trip marks my second time visiting Aspen, and it truly was something very special. The event of the season in Aspen is the World Snow Polo Championship, which The St. Regis is one of the sponsors of. In-between getting to watch the polo match, exploring the town of Aspen in seek of the best vintage stores, and taking the gondola up to the top of the slopes (just for the view, not to actually ski), The St. Regis Aspen was the most amazing place to unwind. Our warm and cozy room with a view of the mountain landscape, dips in the hot tub at the spa, a nice and long dinner at the end of a strenuously cold day. I couldn’t have asked for a better experience of hospitality I have to say. 

Growing up, my sister and I weren’t very fond of cold weather destinations as a vacation. We were used to the desert and the beach, but now being east coasters, and getting used to the cold, coming to places where the cold is enjoyed in so many ways sounds very exciting to us. It feels new and fresh. And there are so many ways these types of environments inspire us creatively, too. The nature. The snow. The blinding blue light the top of the mountain. Après ski and the smell of mulled wine. It inspires the way we get to dress, and the activities we find ourselves doing. There is so much wellness to be found in a mountain town, as well. From the exercise and the ritualistic spa afternoons. Aspen is a place that is both exhilarating and totally low key at the same time. And I have come to love it! Staying at The St. Regis Aspen of course made this very easy to do! 

And of course, experiencing our very first snow polo was so much fun! We loved watching the beautiful horses on the match grounds as the sun set behind the mountains, and learning about the history of the sport and how this event brings so many people together from different places. It’s a unique social event that I’d love to attend again. Aspen, this will not be my last time visiting you, thats for sure! 

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